likes it if someone else's point of view is imposed on him? We all want to be heard. If at school the teacher follows the textbook strictly, does not allow students to express their opinion, but imposes their own, the children will not be interested in reading or writing an intelligent essay. Why express your position if it will be rejected anyway?
If you find yourself in such a situation, try to disassemble the work with your child on your own. If it doesn't work out, then in any case you can contact the author and tell him to write essays for me, because I'm not good at it. Show him that his point of view also has a right to exist. Let me see in Oblomov not a lazy person, but a person who is afraid of the outside world. This is far more entertaining than describing his vices. Formulate topics yourself and discuss interesting points. It's difficult, but it's worth it.
Offer to write lettersLet the child write letters to himself about his desires, dreams, fears. They can be different: short, long, with or without pictures. You need to write for your future. You can open the letter tomorrow, or you can open the letter in a month or a year.
Thanks to the letters, it will be easier for the child to formulate thoughts. The main thing is that he will have the motivation to fulfill everything that is written. The letter might look like this: “Hi, Vasya! I am writing a letter to myself today. I know that in a week you will pass this difficult exam at a music school, write an essay ... I would like that ... "
Send letters to your address by mail or create a mailbox in the future.
Whatever method you choose, remember that you need to deal with the child. He sees the world the way his parents show him. Expand your horizons, stock up on patience and boundless love for creativity. Then the adult who will turn out from your child will be able not only to write essays, but also learn to be open and notice the wonderful world around him.